Every time we handle frustration, solve a conflict, admit a mistake, or show kindness—we’re teaching. Whether we realize it or not. And while it would be amazing if kids could just absorb emotional regulation by osmosis, they’re actually looking to you to show them how it’s done.

Social and Emotional Learning is simply this:

Teaching kids how to understand and manage their emotions, build positive relationships, handle challenges, and make responsible choices.

Let summer be a season of becoming—not a season of measuring. Let your child find the wonder in slow days, the wisdom in play, and the spark in the “boring” moments. And let you find peace in knowing: You don’t need to be perfect, Pinterest-y, or performative.

You just need to be present. The learning? It’s already happening.